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Checkswrecks.......u need to move to where I live mate . Decent beer , no riots no helicopters flying overhead , def no one shooting within at least 25 miles , lots of garages and dishwashers and ur accent will go down a storm with the neighbours .As a plus most woman get their txts out on the beach too......something I know they dont do in Florida as my mrs tried it and our friends had fit , more so as she had a beer in her hand at the same time .
 

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I Idon’t give a shit about the neighbor or his job. I don’t want a physical/ gun confrontation. People take it personal when you attack their job / income stream. I have taken the attack on my house personal. Remember this sort of thing has already happened to me. I guess if I pull the trigger on the claim I should be prepared to move again.

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I too lived in Fed Hill in a Row House near the Bush House. Lived their for 15 years. The restaurants and bars were great. We left just before the Freddie Gray Riots.
 
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. . . . I guess if I pull the trigger on the claim I should be prepared to move again. . . .
I'd hazard a guess, that this isn't the first time he's done this. Nor, is it likely the first complaint. Unfortunately, many companies use the "shotgun" method, by playing the odds. Do this type of thing to everybody. . . . expecting/hoping people don't complain. . . . and they don't. It's worth it to them to bite the bullet every-so-often. Customer service is a thing of the past.

Personal opinion: He won't get fired, because he is likely a "high producer" for his company. He won't give a shit; not his money. :mad: I don't think you'll have to move, or have any issues with him.
 
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File the claim and don't worry about it. You've been paying home owner's insurance for years for crap like this that is not your fault. The neighbor will be more put off by not getting the job than by the claim and any fuss. He's been there before, most likely, and it will either roll off his back because he produces for the company, or it will get him fired. Karma is a funny thing. You gave him a shot and he set off your BS detector, so you did your due diligence. That you were even going to get other quotes apparently fired him up. All he's done is proven your point, that he wasn't trustworthy and that's how he came across when he tried to sell you the roof job.

Worst case, he gets canned. But guys like that find another job fast by lying about how great they were at the last company and snowballing their way in at the next place. No need for you to prepare to move or stress about his reaction. It's not worth his time to get excited about it. He might flip you shit once if you run into him, but odds are he knows he's been caught out and won't want to discuss it with you or anyone else since he can't defend his behavior.
 

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If that's the behavior of the company trying to win the work, imagine the quality of the installation job. Forget about any warranty work if needed.

Your insurance company says you need a new roof. You gave the guy a chance to be there with the insurance adjuster. He made his choice. Let the insurance company do their job. The rest is out of your hands.
 

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Thank you all. I can be a man of extremes, and sometimes miss the bigger picture, receiving your council and advise has been helpful. I had to throw out the rule book in order to keep my wife and I safe for an entire year. That sort of thing changes you.

I was working for Carmax. Doing well. My wife and I were not blessed with kids. We tried. I could drive any car I desired. My house was paid for. In order to keep my credit alive, I got a motorcycle, a Harley Road King Custom. Well some times in life we run into evil. My neighbor 4 doors down coveted what I had, nice house, $90,000 cars, new Harley, and a pretty wife.

Not that I care, but life had not been kind to this guy. He was a school teacher and had become a cliché. Apparently drinking one night in one of Baltimore’s many bars he got into a fight. A club or pipe had been used on him. Literally a steel plate in his head. I think it just further compounded his problems. I think he was already mentally ill and an alcoholic.

One night at 2 in the morning he kicked our door in was coming up the stairs to kill us. My dog held his ground long enough for me to get my pants on and together we chased him out of the house. I would get calls at work from my wife. She could not get out of the car. He would point his beater Ford Ranger at her. Revving the engine. I would send her shopping (good distraction for an upset woman) and get my ass home. Now this went on for a year. The incedents varied but theme was consistent And he was escalating. While I was trying to figure out how to deal with this (Month One), my wife was put on a Grand Jury. She was on it for a year! Carmax paid her. That’s were we meet. They did some big stuff. Drug crews and even indicted the mayor. So we were stuck like chuck.

My work was getting tired of the distractions. Furthermore they were trying to weed out the dinosaurs. When I joined Carmax, The managers were betting on when the company would go under. The stock fell to .98 a share. I had played a part on turning the corner, and changed an entire industry. During this time I had purchased a boatload of stock. So I a rich fuck, some one is trying to kill my wife, work wants me gone. Some of what I dI’d was not legal but it was necessary. I will not elaborate here perhaps in person if we ever have a rally. With that said I made some drastic unilateral decision.

I quit my job, sold my stock, (I was liquid now) Long story short I baby sat my wife full time for a year. I went to Crime scenes, corner inquests and drove her to and from the court hose. I also used the time to help Usher my parents out of this world. They were in the messy part of the field. My 4 other siblings had families of their own, complete with kids. They did not have the time or money. On the last day of jury duty I picked my wife up in a uhaul. And came to NC. I had not told her or another living soul what I was doing. As I said I am man of extremes. If we have a rally and you are interested I will tell you whole story.

This sort of thing changes you. Whenever a white Ford ranger passes by the hair on my neck stands up. After we got our new house we wanted to show it off. Had a party. My guests stayed too late and drank and ate too much. But every one had a good time. After the last guest left at 3 am, I locked the house up, then went and check every room every closet even the attic to make sure the house was secure. I hope you never encounter this sort of evil but believe me it’s out there.
 
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Heck of a story and from what you relate, you lived through a rough period in Baltimore. (My daughter is on Poultney Street btw) We both/all know that whacks like your Ford Ranger guy are fortunately rare, but they do exist and while karma does come around, sometimes it's better to just walk away. I hope your new life finds the peace you sought.

But I also would not worry about the roofing neighbor and still would do as your insurance company requested.
 

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Checkswrecks.......u need to move to where I live mate . Decent beer , no riots no helicopters flying overhead , def no one shooting within at least 25 miles , lots of garages and dishwashers and ur accent will go down a storm with the neighbours .As a plus most woman get their txts out on the beach too......something I know they dont do in Florida as my mrs tried it and our friends had fit , more so as she had a beer in her hand at the same time .
I've spent enough months in the UK to understand and appreciate the neighbor/community orientation.

My daughter was 23(?) when she got accepted to grad school which also meant she got to try life in the big city, literally in the center of all the bars and bright lights. We bought and rebuilt a tired 1901 townhouse, which has grown in value and can now be her down payment for a nicer place in an outer suburb near her horse. One of the nice things about where I live nearby is that I'm an hour to DC, an hour to Baltimore, yet pass cows to get into our little town, have a deer trail through the front yard, and neighbors who do look out for each other.
 

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I learned two things from that whole thing.

One, live below you means, bling can get unwarted attention and it can get dangerous quick. I drive a Sonata (good car) My wife has a Highlander.

Two, there is almost always a solution to a problem you just have to be willing to marshal the resources and be willing to make a new rule book. Get creative and think outside the box even if its not legal. Everyone kept saying get a restraining order. That always ends badly and I knew with this guy it was like tossing gasoline on a fire. I came up with other ways to keep him occupied. Basically he was breaking the law, If I followed the law I would have lost my wife or we would have been hurt. I no longer felt protected or constrained by our legal system. Some may argue with my tactics but we are here and safe and he is still alive. I did not have to spend my wealth on a murder trial. We have been down here in NC for 8 years now. I tell my friends I feel like Forest Gump. I love cutting my grass with my ridding mower. Its a big yard. And my life is totally different now. We live on an acre of land near a country club. Operative word near not in. No bling remember. Before here we were in a tiny row house no yard and in a Balt City.

Oh one other thing. With the exception of this forum I have no Social Media presence what so ever. No Twitter, facebook Linkten ect... And I forbid my wife from it as well. This guy scared me so bad I wanted to be as invisible as possible. Its almost like witness protection.
 
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I am sorry about your experience Fennellg. PM coming your way about mine.
 

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8 years for him to live like that in The Land Of Pleasant Living?*
He's probably either dead or in prison.

* For others - LOPL is a slogan on the Natty Boh beer factory that is visible around the city.
 

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Pretty chilling stuff Fennellg. In the last 18 years all of my closest neighbors have been a several minute walk from the house. DM and I are considering changing that and moving somewhere that neighbors would be closer. Your story make me think that could be a mistake.
 

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Till this guy I liked Baltimore city. It was getting old and so was I. In a way it was time. He just forced me into a big change. All and all things are more pleasant in the south. Life is slower, things are cheaper. My house up in MD would be 3/4 to a million. I stole it. Got it at the end of 2012 Sept. The mortgage meltdown was in full swing. No one was issuing new mortgages. My wife and I with our dog were staying in a micro in or something. It was nice for what I needed. Had a little kitchen (we never used it) allowed pets and was big enough so I did not feel cramped. In fact I felt safe there.

My wife wanted out and was pushing hard to find something. I guess I was shutting down from the year of stress. I liked having nothing to worry about. She found our house it was an all brick new home energy star rated on an acre. 3200 sq feet. They wanted 275 or so. I offered 215. They settled at 217 and said it did not matter no one could get loans right now anyway. I told then I was paying cash. We spent 3 weeks in the hotel waiting to settle. By then I had enough, my feeling of safety was replaced with wanting to get the hell out of that hotel and move into my new house. Guess you could say I purchased at the bottom of the market. It’s gone up considerably. I remarked to my wife, I have to start selling cars again Things are much easier down here.
 
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Having an acre is nice Dirt Dad. There are times I wish I had 3 or 4. But then I remember the yard work. There is a saying I never liked too much. “Good fences make good neighbors”. I always thought it was cold and unfriendly.

I now have changed and quote that very saying from time to time.
 

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Having an acre is nice Dirt Dad. There are times I wish I had 3 or 4. But then I remember the yard work. There is a saying I never liked too much. “Good fences make good neighbors”. I always thought it was cold and unfriendly.

I now have changed and quote that very saying from time to time.
I don't think it's ever enough. My 5 acre property is one of the smaller lots up here on the mountain. Not sure how big it would need to be to feel like I have the right amount between us and neighbors. I know it's way more than 5.

Fences bring fence mending. We have two good size horse paddocks on the property. After a storm the insurance company paid $5K to repaint our fencing. Unfortunately it needs it again. Not looking forward to that one. Plus dealing with posts that rot in the ground, or boards that rot in the weather, a fence is a lot of work.
 
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