Andrew said:I stay on the bike while refueling so I can slosh the last drop into the tank, then clear the bike away from the pump before stretching the legs.
That's me too. I'm not concerned about the auto shut off as I always control the flow myself. I am tall though and have long arms, so I expect that does help.
As to the sidestand, I think the lean is fine. It does leave the bike stable.