Helios,
I promise these guys were not actually speaking with any kind of conviction about YOU personally. It was all just generality....and yes, included some stereotyping. It's the nature of a water cooler forum. We gotta have SOMETHIING to say.
I too understand the stereotypes, and the implication that someone would be one-or-the-other. Either comfortable with computer technology or comfortable with mechanical tools, but not likely BOTH.
I disagree with THAT specific stereotype myself. Although I do agree that it is often accurate.
I'm a network engineer and I am on-the-grid 24\7. I am well aware that almost everything I encounter daily is far outside the comfort zone of the majority of the human race. But I humbly profess that I am not able to explain why it is unintimidating to me. I am just wired that way. I give myself no credit for that. It totally is a gift (or burden) from the maker of such things.
But I'm not afraid of a wrench either. In fact, I grew up as a carpenter by trade. And not the pickup truck kind. Instead, the high end custom architectural millwork kind. Very close to being a machinist of wood. And very much "mechanical", rather than "craftsman". (I admittedly am much less a craftsman. That requires an artistic nature. I am NO artist! I admire those that are. Whether it is with wood or metal)
Regardless, please don't be offended by anything that has been stated here. I know these guys. Been here a long time. Most of these fellas would bend over backwards to assist you in any way that they can. Including this shifter issue.
And you won't hear me encouraging anyone ever to be cautious with trying something they haven't done before! It's what makes us different than ANY other species!
Beavers build dams. It's what they are designed to do. They don't even know why they do it. And they will never do anything else.
Us? We are so very different. We are rolling around on horse drawn chariots in one century, and then building a space shuttle and going into space, the next.
We can do anything. And we were designed to. We're amazing. lol