Sorry Calboy, but can't say that I agree with what was said above. If what you've typed is the real and complete story, you never said that you would buy it, you just asked questions about it. If you sent your PM and said "I'll take the seat, but can you let me know xyz" then I see your point. If you said "I'm interested, but would like to know xyz," well then, I don't see your point of view.Calboy said:So, I guess it doesn't really matter who sends what and when. It didn't really matter that I took the time and interest to send you a message before zxrider11, did it?
There are no moral rules around here, no common courtesy or respect. This post is a prime example on how some of the items in the "for sale" section are sold. Above other people's heads. It is not the first time it happened to me, and I am true to my word. I don't like to stir crap but someone acts like ride1st and I must bring it to the attention of someone. Maybe one of the moderators will feel compelled to get at the bottom of this c r a p, so it won't happen again.
This post of mine is not a sign of frustration or desperation. I have seats, trust me. I can even go to Hollister tomorrow just for kicks, but I can't tolerate such a despicable behaviour, that's all.
By the way, he did send me a PM and I was waiting on him to take some measurements of the actual seat. Said he was at work and couldn't get to it until tomorrow. Way to go, pal!
I didn't expect you to understand anything. My first reply was actually a monologue in disguise. I could have tried for days to explain things to you and my efforts would have been in vain. These are situations you deal with the way you've always dealt with. It's how things were presented to you in the very early stages of your life. That is the time when you were taught the do's, the don'ts, the moral aspect that should govern and define one's behaviour.ride1st said:Sorry if Calboy got his feelings hurt. If a situation like this upsets you so much that you describe it as despicable, maybe the internet is not for you. You had questions, how wide is it, is the foam hard or soft... I try to answer all questions as quickly and as honestly as I can. Until someone commits to buy, the item remains for sale. ZX11rider responded both here and at advrider where I had it posted saying he would buy it. Sorry if I gave you the impression that I was holding the seat for yo,u until you got through your Goldilocks complex of this one being just right. ::021::
It's really a sad case scenario when someone still carries the Old West pseudo philosophy in the year 2016.Kwatters said:I agree with vw boomer if one guy has questions and the next cash guess who gets my attention