Don't Wait Until It Is Too Late

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I went to a graduation party this weekend and was introduced to a former USAF Fighter Pilot. In a nut shell, here's his story. He rode motorcycles when he was younger, then put them aside due to marriage, career etc. As time went by, he began to think about riding again. Life's circumstances kept him from getting a bike, mostly the stuff all of us deal with. Then came the day his life really changed--he was diagnosed with Parkinson's. Now he was under the gun, he knew he only had a small window of opportunity. He immediately bought a Harley, whichever model was his dream bike. He rode all over, solo to Canada and all over the Southwest USA. He was diagnosed in 2005 and was able to ride up until last year. His doctor eventually told him it was time to stop, his disease progressed too far to ride safely.

He told me the story outside as we stood by my Super T. He was able to throw his leg over my bike and sit on it for a while. I told him my story how I had never ridden a motorcycle until two years ago, inspired by my friend who died of cancer. He smiled as he told his story, and said something I will never forget. He said, "It's good you are riding because you want to, I waited until I had to." Here's a man who had flown fighter jets for a living, and now had difficulty walking. He was not bitter, or angry, at least he didn't show it. But his words to "not wait until you have no choice" rang true to me.

We all have responsibilities and obligations. But sometimes we take time for granted, until we can hear the clock ticking. If you are sitting on the fence about that long trip, or that certain something you have been dreaming about, make it happen. Make it a priority, like Larry was forced to do. Thanks Larry, I won't forget what you said.
 

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I believe in that...

ridden:
49 US states (not AK yet)
10 Canadian provinces
10 western European countries
Eastern Australia

I had AK planned a couple times & friends said, wait till next year & we'll go with you...
then it never happened due to this or that....
 

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Great post, MM. And how true. My wife and I were talking about this just the other day. Whenever I want something for the bike, or some additional riding gear or accessory, I always fret about it for a while. On again, off again. My wife picks up on this right away. She asks me two questions: 1. Can we afford it? and 2. Do you think you are going to live forever? The answer to 1. is usually "yes". The answer to 2. clinches the deal. Thanks, dear.


MM, I'm going to move this thread because that's what I'm supposed to do. This is in no way intended to minimize the message. It's a great post, and thanks for writing it up. Let's be careful out there. R. ::020::
 

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rem said:
Great post, MM. And how true. My wife and I were talking about this just the other day. Whenever I want something for the bike, or some additional riding gear or accessory, I always fret about it for a while. On again, off again. My wife picks up on this right away. She asks me two questions: 1. Can we afford it? and 2. Do you think you are going to live forever? The answer to 1. is usually "yes". The answer to 2. clinches the deal. Thanks, dear.


MM, I'm going to move this thread because that's what I'm supposed to do. This is in no way intended to minimize the message. It's a great post, and thanks for writing it up. Let's be careful out there. R. ::020::
oops, sorry if I put this in the wrong spot. Thanks for moving it :)
 

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I have ridden all my life. And STILL, this story applies!

I believe life is not an accident. We are supposed to be here. And the universe is there for our delight. Nobody will require you to fill your cup up. But it is a shame if you stop yourself.
 

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This from a man who flew fighter jets?

Inspiring. Get out there - life is happening with or without us...
 

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Roger every word MM.


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Thanks MM. It's a good reminder. I appreciate you sharing that story.
 

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MidlifeMotor said:
oops, sorry if I put this in the wrong spot. Thanks for moving it :)

It was absolutely no big deal. Just some basic housekeeping. It has been really well received judging from the number of hits it has had. It was an honest and inspiring story, and your writing skills ain't exactly shabby, either. I sure hope the old pilot dude is doing well. Wish we could make him an honorary member or something. Thanks again for taking the time. R ::003::
 
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