groan - Too bad you assert that you won't be here to read this then.
There are two mods here, not one.
We try to not do the moderating, cutting, or editing that happens on other forums including ADV. People said they didn't want it and we've generally tried to listen. The line is generally when we start insulting or attacking others, usually when guys forget that we're all an occasional a-hole and then hit the "Post" button. (Yup, I can be in that group.)
Because we do need to draw a line somewhere, attacking or insulting other members has almost always been addressed by personal messages. You and the other member both got them, you weren't picked on. We generally don't broadcast doing this so you're clearly not aware of the warnings given to other members and they didn't know about yours till you mentioned it. Assuming we are referring to the same other member and since you said you've not been around, I guess you missed this from the CO UT BDR thread or the reference to it in this thread, above. Note the underlined text:
Without divulging what was in the pms, basically this was to let the general group know things were being addressed.
Something that has changed while you've been gone is that AvGeek and I realized that using no real discipline hasn't always worked. The pm's get most folks to re-read what they wrote before hitting the send button and it's water over the dam. But we've had a couple who've gone back to bullying, attacking, insulting, being know-it-alls, or whatever you want to call it. Because of this, we've brought back time-outs and one member has had his access shut off. We'd rather do this than lose guys like Buelligan.
Folks - We volunteered to be moderators because we really do want the forum to be an enjoyable place and the more active people are the better it is. While we sure as heck aren't perfect, please DO send a personal message to AvGeek or I if you like something, wonder about what's going on, or have a complaint.